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- Boba LojkParticipant
Thank you for asking Kim!
More than about design I am concerned here about the content. If we decide to print cards with 7 habits without mentioning beliefs that serve them I believe that we missed the point. This is not Choice Theory and Glasser didn’t mean that. Any other aproach can come up with the same idea.We shouldn’t ignore the main thing that Glasser invented – Total behavior.
By practicing some activities as for example listening or any other we can change condition of the relationship for the short time but soon or later we will ask for change on the other side if we don’t believe that we are in charge for our happines, not other person.
So, I suggest to add also believes (thinking component):
External Control Beliefs that fits to Deadly habbits:
1.My behavior is my response to certain circumstances.
2.My behavior is a response to your behavior and vice versa. I can make you behave the way I want and I believe that this is right and just.
3.My role (my duty and responsibility) is to make you behave the way I want you to behave. I believe that this is right and you should behave that way.
Choice Theory Beliefs that fits to Caring Habbits
1.My behavior is my choice in certain circumstances.
2.My beavior is my choice, your behavior is your choice. Your behavior is just an information for me, what will I do with it is my choice and vice versa.
3.My role (my duty and responsibility) is to create conditions by offering you all necessary information. What will you do with it is your choice and your responsibility.
Our actions (habbits) in relationships is in accordance with our understanding of human behavior.
I believe that such cards can be usfull no metter of flower and colour.